A Powerful Way to Attract With A Big Girl
It's a natural tendency for guys are addicted to a big girl. They hang out with her every day and call her day and night trying hard to create attraction with your big girl. But what you probably don't know is that desperately pursuing a big girl or being too available can ruin the attraction you're trying to create.
Yes, when you meet an attractive big girl, it becomes hard to think about her. But truth is, when you are addicted to a plus size girl and attention to her, you display a very needy and desperate vibe. And if you didn't know by now, this is one of the quickest ways to lose the big beautiful girl.
Sure, you'd want to attract big girls. But at the same time, you'd also want to convey to her you have other options in life other than pursuing her. And a great way to do this is to lead a busy and fun lifestyle.
A busy and fun lifestyle equals attraction
A busy and fun lifestyle in the sense that, you want to nonverbally communicate to a big girl you busily engage in fun and exciting activities other than cling to big girls. This way you stand out from other guys and convey to her you're an attractive guy.
Now, the question is... how would a big girl notice you when you're not pursuing her? Or more accurately, how would a big girl fall for you when you're not giving her the 'time and attention' she needs?
It is simple, because big girls want to have fun.
Big girls are extremely and naturally attracted to guys who lead a fun and exciting lifestyle. And a big girl will be more attracted to you if she thinks you are fun to be around.
Making yourself unavailable
When you're too available and cling to a big girl, she gets the impression that she has got your interest already. And that's when she begins to manipulate you and play hard to get.
But if you're not readily available yet you've managed to build rapport with her with your attractive personality, she'll get the impression you're not the kind of guy who clings to plus size girls. Thus, you become a good catch and irresistible. And she will be the one pursuing you.
Unlike the lower status guy who's always available and desperately at a big and beautiful girl's beck and call, in the hopes that the big beautiful woman falls in love with him, you come across as different. Because you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who will cling to her and be at her beck and call. So how do you separate yourself from other guys and attract the big girl you like?
The details to build attraction with a big girl
So instead of being readily available in desperate hopes that the plus size girl you have a crush on falls head over heels for you, go out and engage in fun and exciting activities.
When your life is fun and interesting, not only do you draw big girls to you, but you also get tons of things to talk about with a plus size girl. Understand: Big girls are emotional creatures. And they crave emotional conversations. And that means, talking about yourselves and your daily experiences. In other respect, talking about the things you enjoy doing. So, in addition to talking about your favourite TV shows and celebrities. You can also talk about the interesting and exciting things that happened to you over the week.
Talk about the cool things you saw or did - the skydiving you performed and how exciting and fun that was. You then ask her if she's had a similar experience, and get her to share hers too.
Not only will she also start talking about similar stuff she experienced, but she will start to imagine what it is like to be part of your life. This will draw her to you, and she will want to hang out with you more. Because, as I mentioned earlier, big girls want to have fun. And will be more attracted to you if they think you are fun to be around.
When your life is fun and interesting, you get tons of things to talk about with an overweight girl.
Big girls are used to guys putting them on a pedestal. Including clinging and being at their beck and call.
So instead of desperately pursuing a plump girl you have a crush on, engage in some fun and exciting activities, such as enjoying your hobbies. Giving her the impression that you're not the kind of guy who cling to plus size girls, because you have other options in life other than chasing skirts.
If she sees that she doesn't have your full attention, despite her attractiveness, she will find you very attractive. And when especially you've managed to build rapport with her with your attractive personality, you become a good catch and irresistible. And this will turn the tables, and she will be the one pursuing you.
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